Want an extremely powerful, yet amazingly simple technique to keep yourself looking aloof and high value, and keep her interested?

Tease the shit out of her.

Teasing is the consistent, but not overindulgent, use of subtle negs during conversation.  Teasing can be done over the phone, face to face, or via text.  It is a great way to make yourself appear mysterious, slightly disinterested, and of high value.

If you don’t already know, a neg is best described as an ambiguous compliment.  It should leave the girl wondering whether or not you’ve said something nice to her, or something that has offended her pride (the best negs manage to elegantly combine both).  Negs are a wonderful way to pass female shit-tests with ease and flying colors because they – by nature – reframe the shit-test, and skirt around it without a real answer.

For example, if a woman asks you at the bar or wherever you are running the pick-up, “So do you think I’m pretty?” (or any variation where she is attempting to get you to compliment her beauty), the perfect alpha response is a neg:

“Eh.. you’re all right for a seven.”

This neg does several things: It gets her thinking, I’m only a seven? but seven is good, right?  There are degrees of sevens?  So wait, am I pretty or does he date higher than sevens?

You’ve just sent the rationalization hamster into over-drive.   She doesn’t know whether to be flattered or offended; you’ve triggered her hypergamous pre-selective instincts by implying that you usually do better than her (this is done with body language: scrunched face as you talk, giving her a good up-and-down with the eyes, raising the pitch of your voice to make it sound like you’re reaching for her sake, etc.).

Shit like this is gold during the pick-up.  Its honest to god gold and will get you so much ass, but that’s another post.

Once you’re within your comfort-building stage (first date/second venue – I’d say about 3+ hours into the pick-up) is when you should stop teasing with heavy negs (like the one above) and instead switch to subtlety for your teasing needs.  Make sure that you follow your teases with a smirk so she knows its a tease and doesn’t get too butthurt.  If she tries to tease you back, neg her like you did in the beginning.  A girl teasing you back is a shit-test, believe it or not, with her goal being your balls.  She wants to see if you’ve “still got it -” so to speak.

An example of a subtle neg to tease: “Do these jeans make my ass look fat?”

“uhh.. yup.” – then smirk.  She’ll playfully slap or shove you, tell you to shut up, and forget all about her ass.

Teasing gently can be a very difficult thing for men to understand.  You see, when you first start game you’re too big of a pussy to talk to women.  Most men will try it a few times, get shut down, and then drop the game “bullshit” to become even more ardent betas.  The few that keep trying beyond the failures will reach the ‘honey peak’ where they’re masters in their shiny new world, number and fuck closing like a boss.  In an attempt to get even better, they push further into what they think is ‘alpha’ and end up being assholes.  Eventually you settle back into the Money Spot and all is well again.

The same thing will happen when you try to tease.  You’ll find you’re good at it, get over-confident in yourself, and shift from teasing to just plain insulting (insults are only to be used on fat chicks).   Be careful and watch for that! If you find you’re starting to drift from the happy medium into asshole territory, go back to a canned list of teases that you know work (You should be writing down the ones that work as you go for future reference). Pro-Tip: As far as canned material is concerned, it may not be new to you but it certainly is to her!

Alpha’s Personal Favorite Teases:

You might possibly meet my strict standards..

You’re kind of cute.

HB: I feel like no one ever listens to me
I’m sorry, what? (Chicks eat that shit up)

Wow, that’s a bold outfit!

If you all would be so kind as to leave your favorite teases in the comments, I’ll compile a list.

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