OK so I got an email from a friend.

Apparently, he took a class (before knowing me) from someone who “specialized” in teaching Asian guys to pick up white chicks. 

CAN SOMEONE SIGN ME UP FOR THAT COURSE! LOL!

They apparently said that “Asian guys have less success chances in dating white girls due to social conditioning and stereotypes portrayed in western media.” Man… I don’t know. I NEVER slag on other companies (and I won’t mention who they are), but this is not my experience.

Here is my response:

“Re picking up white girls… to be honest dude, I’ve never really had a problem with it. In fact, I’ve only ever hooked up with an asian girl once (she was a stripper in LA that I picked up from the strip club LOL) – the rest have been white. Not saying that I won’t in future, but it isn’t my modus operandi. I think the reason that you say “there are not many Asian guys who are really good at this” is simply because you haven’t predominantly lived in a white country so don’t have the reference experiences?

This may sound weird but the reason I’ve never really been the guy to “teach asian guys how to pick up white girls” is honestly because I’ve never personally had a problem with it – I never even perceived being asian to be a barrier AT ALL, so why would I teach it LOL. I mean, I just hooked up with white girls because there weren’t asian girls around to hook up with! I guess it’s the same thing when an animal evolves in a different environment?

I grew up in Australia and then moved to the UK and travelled mostly to the USA. So I didnt have exposure to anything else. I mean, there is nothing you can do about it anyway dude (unless you intend to throw a Michael Jackson skin graft), so worrying about it just makes asian guys more fucked up if you ask me.

And bro, this is compllleettteeeeeeeee bullshit IMHO “They said Asian guys have less success chances in dating white girls due to social conditioning and stereotypes portrayed in western media.”. Absolutely laughable. Just like “all black guys steal”. Or “all texans are rednecks” LOL. Yes, there is a stereotype and yes, there may be a SMALL percentage of girls who will NEVER date an asian guy, but come onnnnnn.

The MOMENT I open my mouth with a western, eastern whatever girl, she knows I don’t fit into the stereotype.

Seriously, the fact that you even THINK that, or that [PERSONS NAME] even said that, is holding you back.

There are no new techniques, or weird things that you have to do. Maybe don’t dress like a asian bookworm but thats so obvious.

I mean, like I said, this was never a problem for me… I just picked up white chicks because there wasn’t anything else around!! So yeah, in my opinion, nothing changes. I’ve taught asian guys how to get white girls, but there was no marketing BS on how I’m the guy to teach it – I just teach guys to hook up with girls… be they asian, white, hebrew, jew etc etc.

But then again, you know, maybe I might just be shit at picking up asian girls and thats the reason I don’t know how hard it is for asian guys to pick up white girls? I don’t know bro. But to be honest – im a short, not so good looking asian guy who has ONE hookup with an asian girls and too many hookups with white girls to count lol.”

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